[Serious] People over 40 that never had any kids, How do you feel about your decision? Has it affected your life? : AskReddit

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I went to bed dissatisfied and forced to think about the idea of what it means to become a parent. It's never too late to start something.

I just trust my feeling on what I need and go ahead. Just because you made them go to church every Sunday doesn't mean they won't commit petty theft or end up in jail. No posts about politicians or political parties.

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I am 30 years old and haven't had any fun in life. Haven't dated anyone in last 3 years, have never been on a trip with friends. Most of the times I am not able to do what I feel like because circumstances like lack of money or family commitments. First of all understand the fact that no matter whatever life you are living, you are living someone's dream life. Get this idea out of your head that you are leading a sad life. Most unhappily married men would wish that they were in your place instead :P Want to get rid of it. Make a list of things that you want to do. Write specific details for each. Eg: I wanna sky dive on the 31st of august with my friends. Make a list of things that are necessary to do that and start working on that. Also assume that you never had any fun you think it's gonna take to do that it's gonna take twice the hardworking and effort to do the same Once you know that what you want it's very easy to shape and take control of your life. I think you have pretty much figured out what you don't wantjust the other half left now. Once a decision is made, follow up with efforts to get there. So all in all, I'd say ofcouse you should hope for better, that's gonna happen anyway but not if you are still whining over stuff. Get over it, ignore the negative, look for what you want, find a way to get the means to do that and then hop on to the next thing you want to do. If you think that you need money urgently, then get into a job at the moment. Take it whichever way it comes from. Have some bucks, then live your dream. Then see if you are enjoying your job or not. And don't be frustrated if you are not dating someone. It seems that you are a despo kind of guy who desperately needs women. You never had any fun never too late to start something. And bro, money is not a fun at all.

One of babies' innate properties is to develop, she seems to make an identity out of it. It's really getting to me tbh. For example, if you've never flown in a helicopter, you could say Never have I ever flown in a helicopter. Otherwise it's always prefaced with when you got a minute. Instead, please support our posters directly by commenting directly on their posts. I'm so thankful for and blown away by the support here. Or the dog needs let out since that his chore and he tends to ignore him. So, as I watch countless friends and acquaintances around me entertain the idea of becoming a parent, I can't help but point out all the reasons you really shouldn't even think about having kids… at least for a long time.